I made a stupid mistake and gave up my marriage for a person I was besotted with who demanded it. Then, the betrayal (I deserved it, yes I agree with you). Alone and adrift, I found my footing again in travel, getting training and setting up a small business, building a steady clientele. At last I learned to fill a hole in me I always thought I needed another person to fill. And then covid hit and yup, you guessed it, there went the business. Well, it will recover. Or not. But what I found is that I’m ok. I look around and I know I’m going to be ok. On my own, owning my mistakes, learning from the experience. And that’s an amazing find.